Poly and Kinky

Free yourself. . . 1. What do you need to learn but won’t admit to? I need to learn to take better care of myself physically. I need to stop being so anxious and worrying so much but I have no idea how to accomplish that.  2. If you could erase one event from your life, which one would you choose? Briefly describe the event, tell us why you would erase it. There are actually several nasty things in my past that I would like to erase but if I did that I wouldn't be the person I am today and I'm pretty comfortable with myself these days. So I guess I would choose not to marry my first husband. I would still have a relationship with him because I wouldn't want to lose the one good thing that came from it but I wouldn't marry him. 3. Who drains your energy, and why do you let it happen? My blood family, my parents in particular. I don't know why I let it happen. I still need their financial support occasionally? I should grow the fuck up. 4. Do your pract

It's TMI Tuesday again! And it's an extra answer kinda day again. 1. If each of your index fingers could spew a liquid for the rest of your life, what liquid(s) would it be. Kat - That depends. Would it be constant and inconvenient ala King Midas or would it happen only when I wanted it to? If it's the latter I think water from one so I or anybody else I cared to share with, would never be thirsty. From the other, I have no idea . . .  Schatzi - Water and milk... or apple juice. It's hard to decide. Wulf - Scotch and black cherry kool-aid! 2. If you could talk to everyone in the world for 5 minutes, all at once, what would you say? Kat - It's a pretty short message, really; maybe I'd just repeat it over and over again. "Stop being dicks to each other!" Schatzi - Hi! Woof woof woof woof! Wulf - Gro the fuck up! 3. Would you rather not be able to eat for a week OR not be able to _____ for a month? Kat - This one is a little too eas

It's TMI Tuesday again! Hello ,  we’re listening . 1. Picture the child you once were, what did that child do very well? She was a great chameleon. She could blend in anywhere with any people. She told a ton of lies to have that ability though. 2. What are you really good at now? Now, I'm really good at being the authentic me. I really don't place much weight at all on what others think. I live and let live and expect the same. You do you, I'll do me :P 3. Did you ever expect love in return and not get it? Are we gonna get really deep and say I expected more parental love than I got? Sure, they feed me (most of the time) and kept a roof over my head but day to day I think they couldn't have cared less.  We could also be super shallow and talk about all those internet "submissives" I met up with who let me down in a big way, but that wasn't love. . .  4. Who do you need to get in touch with because it has been so long? I don't

Heyyyy!  TMI Tuesday  time again. This week, you get a 3 for one! My (K), Wulf, and Schatzi's answers. 1. Is your sex life more fantasy or reality? K- Reality W-Fantasy S-Reality 2. If you could hook-up with a past lover (with no repercussions or regret), who would it be and why? (No need to use real names just briefly describe the person and their relationship to you.) K-Nope. Not at all.  W- R, because she was young and hot S-My first, just for the hell of it. 3. You can only indulge in one of the following sex acts for the rest of your life, which would you choose to enjoy? a. oral sex, only giving b. 69 c. oral sex, only receiving d. mutual masturbation K-Mutual Masturbation. It seems like there would be more options for ways to do it. W-Oral sex, only receiving S-Oral sex. only giving 4. With each lover do you pay attention to what they want or do you have a repertoire that you stick to when having sex? K-I absolutely pay attention, I have to t

Hi there! Let’s play  TMI Tuesday . Take a Look at Me Now. 1. What was your biggest worry five years ago, do you still have that same worry or feel the same about it at this minute? I guess I pretty much live in the moment because I can never remember in what year what happened. I'd guess that my biggest worry in 2013 was my husband's health concerns and I think though the concerns are different now, the worry is the same. I can't imagine my life without him. 2. Do you have a positive or negative body image? What factors contribute to your self body image? a. advertisements b. media and social media c. comments from others d. introspection and analysis of self I think I have a pretty positive body image these days. The things I'm most affected by are comments from others and analysis of self. Plus I'm in great relationships with men I love and who love me and I'm at an age where I frankly don't give a fuck what the average person on the street

It's TMI Tuesday again!! 1. If you were an ice-cream flavor, what would you be and why? Rocky Road because it is a mix of different things and so am I. 2. What are the best sexy skills you bring to a sexual relationship? I think I'm pretty good at reading my partner's reactions and figuring out what things they like best. 3. What is the single largest problem causing you angst in your romantic relationship (current or most recent relationship)? Right now, Envy. #PolyProblems 4. What is the best part about being in a relationship with you? I'm loyal and honest, love communication and I'll be touching you all the time. 5. What is the biggest misconception that people have about you? I think people that know me in real life think I'm more chaste and innocent than I am. Bonus:   When you look at old photos of yourself, do you like what you see? Honestly? Sometimes. Depends on angle, lighting, flatteryness of clothing, etc. Want to play?  V

It's TMI Tuesday time again! What kind of person are you? 1. Are you addicted to any social media (Twitter, Instagram, snapchat, etc.)? I have twitter, Instagram, and snapchat but I rarely check them. I check Twitter the most of those three. I guess I should be better about that. If I'm addicted to anything online, it's Tumblr. I'm there several times a day. 2. You know a secret about someone. What do you do with that information? a. I keep it to yourself I'm all about honesty, trust, and loyalty. If you share a secret it'll stay with me (and my poly group cause I tell them everything) 3. You see someone breaking the rules at work, what do you do? a. Pretend not to see what is going on b. Inform upper management c. Advise the co-worker that their actions are frowned upon and can lead to job loss It would depend on the situation. If it was something very minor I might ignore it. If it was something more serious I'd talk to the person about it

It's TMI Tuesday again!  1. If you had a whole week (no work, no kids) to do things with your significant other, what would you do? Relax! Maybe camping together in a tent in the forest. Outdoor sex and coffee brewed over the campfire while we shiver in the morning. Maybe a luxurious hotel where we're pampered and massaged, take long hot baths and sit in the shade outside. 2. What is your idea of a long-term relationship? I'm not sure I understand this question, it's sort of right there in the name lol  My idea of a long-term relationship is one that lasts for a long time. 3. What is a healthy relationship? This one is easier. A healthy relationship is love trust and honesty. Sharing with your partner, caring about what they've got going on. 4. How did you meet your current (or last) lover? One I met in an online chat room 20 years ago, the other I met through an ad on Fetlife. 5. What is the first thing you do after having sex? Catch my breat

1. Who was your favorite cartoon character as a child? There are many, cartoons were a big deal back then. I suppose I'd have to pick He-Man. That cartoon got me, my first boyfriend, :P 2. What makes you cry? I never used to cry but as I've let people into my life and taken down some of my walls I cry more easily. I cry at sad parts of movies, books, and shows, but I also cry when I'm angry which is incredibly frustrating because you can't yell and blow your nose at the same time! 3. What similarity between you and your significant other do you love? I currently have two significant others. With Wulf, it's a love of nature and geekdom. With Schatzi, it's a love for cuddles and snuggles. 4. What characteristic do you admire in others that you feel you are lacking? I admire people's ability to be outgoing, to make small talk with strangers. I have trouble making small talk with close friends, much less strangers. 5. If you could eliminate o