Poly and Kinky

K is for Knowing Your Limits Needing to know your limits applies to both kink and multiple relationships.  Needing to know your limits in a kink situation should be pretty self-explanatory. You should go into a negotiation with a good idea of what you are willing to do, what you might do, and what you absolutely will not do. If you don't have a lot of experience with kink or don't have a lot of experience with real life kink if you have only been exploring online so far you need to sit down with a BDSM checklist  and make some decisions. First look for the things you like or are pretty sure you'll like, mark them off as doable! Then look for things that don't give you tingly feelings or that are actually revolting to you, those are your limits. There are two kinds of limits, Hard Limits are something that you absolutely have zero interest in doing, period. Examples of hard limits might be breath play or heavy bondage. Hard limits should be resp...

When the strapon came in the mail I tried it on and giggled. When I bought a new dildo for it, I tried it on and giggled. When I wanted a picture of it, I put it on and giggled. But when I used it for it's intended purpose last Friday, when I was in the proper frame of mind, I didn't giggle at all. I was too busy listening to those lovely grunts; muffled as they were by the mattress. I did giggle later when he got the hiccups while wearing the ball gag, but that's different!